Application time is in full swing,
and all of us - your parents, teachers and counselors, and most
of all, you - are probably feeling a bit harried. When you're
worried about exams, grades, applications, essays, and Christmas
shopping, it is easy to put things off until the last minute,
and to forget about the impact on others.
You may forget that teachers, for example, who write your recommendations
in their "spare" time, while teaching, correcting papers,
writing exams, and preparing for class, are even more pressed
for time than you are.
Most of the time, they are happy to write those letters, because
they are excited about your future plans and want to do whatever
they can to facilitate your success. But they need your help to
do a good job.
Try making use of the following suggestions:
- Only ask for a recommendation if it is required, or if you feel
the recommendation will point out something about you not otherwise
demonstrated in your file.
- Ask those teachers who know you well enough to be able to comment
specifically on your work or your character (not necessarily the
teachers who gave you an "A").
- Give teachers at least two weeks notice before the deadline.
Writing a single recommendation may take up to an hour, and teachers
may have several to do at one time.
- Don't expect - ask! Teachers not only can but probably should
decline if they don't know you well enough, or if they don't feel
their observations will be to your advantage, or even if they're
just plain overwhelmed.
- Provide a stamped, addressed envelope if the recommendations
are to be mailed directly. Teachers also have the option of returning
recommendations to the guidance office for processing, if they
prefer.
- Find a way to say, "Thank you." Write a short note
or stop by and tell teachers how you fared in your college search.
Remember that they are interested. After all - that's the whole
point!